- Give up your positionality
- Give up your need to be right
- Give up your view on the situation
- Give up your justification
- Give up enrolling your friends, family, colleagues and anyone stupid enough to listen into how it is for you and how it shouldn?t be this way, or its not fair
- Give up wasting time being disempowered by the situation
- Give up wallowing in your self pity
- Give up TRYING to work it out
- Give up being a drama queen/king
- Give up being so self righteous about the situation
- Give up making the other person/parties wrong
- Give up thinking you cannot transform the situation
- Give up the arguments, the attitude and the sleepless nights
- Give up listening to that person/parties as #$**&Y%&@
- Give up allowing one more day of your life to be consumed by this situation
- Give up struggling with it
- Give up psycho-analyzing the situation ad nauseum
- Give up being the little girl or boy around it
- Give us the temper tantrums
- Give up already!
It is what it is. ?Once you can arrive at this point, answer only one question: ?If this situation were to be resolved right now, in an instant, who would YOU need to be being? ?Its never about the other person, the power is ALWAYS in your hands. ?Nothing external can impact your state, I am talking NOTHING, unless you allow it and if you allow it, then you are getting something out of it.
Standing for a breakthrough when positionality is present is not possible. ?So what would it take for you to give up your position on your current situation? ?For the record no one has ever died from giving up their position on their view of x, y, z situation.
Acknowledge whatever has been and reclaim your power ? NOW. Anything is possible if that is what you are committed to in any given moment. Resisting what is will never produce the peace you are looking for. Lightening bolt moment people!? All of human suffering comes from what people ?make things mean?.
Stop the suffering; you have better things to focus your energies on.
The last thing I have to say on the matter is just STOP IT and watch this video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYLMTvxOaeE
Get a sense of humor and lighten up! Life is too short to be enrolled into your own drama!
If you are ready to stop suffering and start getting what you want, then?contact us?or book in for a 1 hour free no obligation consultation session with one of our?Certified Freefall Coaches
Source: http://www.freefallselfimprovement.com/stop-resisting-what-is/
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